Kirsty May Brown

Kirsty May Brown

Tension and Trauma Practitioner in London

My name is Kirsty May Brown and I am a certified sexological bodyworker & embodied sex coach based in London, UK. My work revolves around somatic sexual health, education and healing. I offer work for individuals and couples. I specialise in helping those who may be neurodivergent or recovering from relationship trauma whether it be family, friend or romantic.

If you are interested in working with me, please note I do not accept private or phone bookings. Please visit my website or email

I do NOT provide massage or any sexual services. I am NOT a sex worker, sexual surrogate or interested in any enquiries related to romantic or sexual encounters or activity of any kind including role play or non-clinical, non-therapeutic contact.

Background & Qualifications

Certified Sexological Bodyworker (CSB) and Certified Embodied Sex Coach via the Sea School of Embodiment
Registered accredited member with the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers (ACSB) and the Association of Integrative and Somatic Sexologists (ASIS)
Certified Reiki Level 1
Trauma Yoga & Vagal Toning
BA Hons Degree in Politics & International Development

My Specialisms

I specialize in body image; sexual shame and traumatic sexual experiences; neurodivergent thought patterns, behaviours and dysregulation; authentic movement and erotic freedom. Some of the tools and modalities are:
• Body scan focusing
• Interoceptive awareness: witnessing body within
• The Wheel of Awareness & meditation techniques
• Reflective listening
• Curiosity
• Clean language
• Body poem
• Compassionate witnessing
• Breath work, up/down regulation
• Authentic breath, sound & movement
• Mindful masturbation coaching
• Witnessed masturbation
• Conscious undressing,
• Mirror work (alone or witnessed)
• Body image, nudity, developing sense of love and self care
• Mapping
◦ Anatomical mapping
◦ Sensation mapping
◦ Arousal mapping
◦ 3D mapping
◦ Curiosity mapping
◦ Micro mapping
• Scar tissue remediation
• Empowering choice and voice
• Resourcefulness
• Vagal fitness - co-regulating
• Naming - finding your own words for different parts of your body
• Communicating boundaries and learning embodied consent

Approach to Therapy & How I Work

My work is based in connecting to your current reality. No matter what you are feeling, it is welcome here.

Everything is co-created between myself, the practitioner, and you, the client. Enthusiastic, embodied and informed consent is required and can be rescinded from both of us at all times.
Life is an adventure full of invitations. My only intention is to invite you on this journey inside yourself, to unlearn the unconscious patterns society and dominant culture has embedded within us. To access the pleasure that is your birthright, to fully embody your true erotic self and experience reality with authentic freedom.

I will not fix you, for none of us are broken. I will be your teacher, guide and mentor through the waters of your consciousness, for as long or as little as you need me.

Choose pleasure. Choose You. Feel Real.

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Therapies & Rates

Please note the rates detailed below are there to give you an idea of the therapists standard rates, we strongly advise you contact the therapist for more detailed rates and any offers they may have.

Therapy Appointment Type Rate
Relationship Therapy In Person £70 per 50 minutes
Relationship Therapy Online/Telephone £60 per 50 minutes
Tension and Trauma Releasing In Person £80 per 70 minutes
Scar Tissue Release In Person £70 per 70 minutes