Retail therapy? The truth
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Retail therapy? The truth about shopping addiction.
There’s no such thing as a shopaholic right?
You will often hear people call themselves Shopaholics but what actually is a Shopaholic? Although it’s not classified, as an addiction, in the DSM 5, (diagnostic and statistical manual revision 5; the Bible, for medical, and psychological illness.) There is certainly some evidence to support, the idea of compulsive shopping as an addiction, so much so, that the DSM, may have cause to reclassify their diagnosis.
Oniomania, or shopping addiction, is considered to affect 8% to 6% of UK adults, that’s approximately 8 million people. The idea, that shopping addiction affects women more than men, is supported by research. Nevertheless, if you include, sports equipment, electronic gadgets and computer accessories and software, etc., there is also a prevalence of addictive shopping within men.
The popular idea of shopping being therapeutic, and the idea of being a Shopaholic as something humorous, soon falls away when you consider the real consequences of this compulsive behaviour. Often, the addict is left with crippling debt, severe depression and anxiety. More often than not, as with other addictions, the person with the shopping addiction will start to lose the respect of their loved ones, because of their addiction. Thus increasing their sense of loneliness, which in turn causes the Shopaholic to re- engage in negative or addictive behaviours.
So what drives, shopping addiction?
As with some other addictions, shopping is an easing of negative emotions or psychological pain such as anxiety, sadness, worry and, indeed, loss and loneliness. Shopping, for the addict, as with other behaviours provides an escape, from those feelings which at times can be overwhelming.
Much like any addiction, purchasing and owning, material items, can make the addict feel complete, and give them a sense of euphoria that makes them feel “normal”.
A study carried out at the Tilburg University in the Netherlands found that often loneliness, is one of the key components, of addictive shopping, and tends to make people more materialistic; the study found, there may be a link between hoarding and compulsive shopping, but the two disorders are unique in themselves.
So what is the solution, to shopping addiction?
What’s the answer to shopping addiction, is it simply to reject the inherent need to accumulate material goods; fundamentally is our stuff really that important to us, as human beings?
Letting go of some material possessions is akin to a traumatic event, since for some people this is like letting go of a part of themselves. Disaster victims who have had their homes swept away, often report confusion of identity, in brief their possessions gave them a sense of self.
How do people with compulsive shopping, seek help?
So how does someone with a shopping addiction overcome the anxieties, and concerns of life, without compulsive shopping? Talking to professional such as a psychotherapist/counsellor can assist a person becoming, more in contact with themselves.
Often people, will follow the same pattern, having insight into breaking patterns in life is one of the key components, in psychotherapy/counselling.
Having someone to talk to, who is non-judgemental, is a completely unique environment, and one, that has helped thousands of people. This is fundamentally what counsellors/psychotherapists offer.
If any of the issues raised in this blog resonate with you then maybe it’s time to see someone, who can help you such as a psychotherapist /councillor.
Article written by Anthony Larkin - Crawley
My passion is for people to reach their full potential. Experience has found that individuals are often locked for years in a cycle of destructive thoughts and actions. What gives me the utmost satisfaction is seeing the client freed from these cycles and fully able to have a full life. As... [read more]