Samantha  Jones

Samantha  Jones

Counsellor in Wirral

I am a fully qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist coach with 13 years experience within the NHS and private practice. I work with all kinds of sexual and relationship issues with men, women, other gender and couples and multi person relationships. I am a specialist in alternative lifestyle (open, swinging, poly etc,) LGBT, Kink, fetish and BDSM .

What is Psychosexual Counselling (Sex Therapy)?
Couples and Individuals come to Psychosexual Counselling with a variety of concerns. Maybe they have noticed a difference in their libidos, or lack of desire for sex. Perhaps their sexual relationship has changed after having children. Maybe there are specific issues such as Erectile Dysfunction, Anorgasmia (inability to orgasm) Premature Ejaculation, Dyspareunia (painful sex) Gender Dysphoria, Sexual Orientation Confusion.

You may even have a fetish or a kink such as BDSM, D/s, Adult Baby, shoe fetish, Rubber or Latex and you are uncomfortable with such feelings. You could be involved in the swinging or dogging scene or interested in polyamory and it is causing you and or/ your partner issues.

Your problem could be fairly recent or long standing. Sometimes sexual issues can come after a previously good sex life. Your sexual confidence could be low after the end of a relationship. Maybe you are not sexually confident and need a little help and perhaps even education.

What is Relationship Therapy?
Relationships can be wonderful but when they go wrong it can be so very painful, so painful that there may not seem a way to make things better. Maybe there has been an infidelity issue or stress after having a baby. Work or financial worries can have a huge impact in your relationship. You could feel that you are going round in circles arguing over the same issues time and time again and need a bit of guidance to help make things clearer for you both. You could just be newly divorced or separated and need a bit of support to help you move forward in your life. whatever relationship worries you (both) have we can work together to find a suitable solution for you.

What is Sex Coaching?
Sex coaching is different to traditional Psychosexual Therapy in that if focuses not on sexual dysfunctions but on what you want out of sex, In the session we will look at the sex life you have now and where it could be improved and how. We will look at your core sexual beliefs and myths you may hold and explore your fantasies and desires culminating in how to have the fulfilling sex life you have always wanted.

Your session may include homework that could be anything from watching films to researching or reading literature. drawing or writing. Whatever works for you/us at the time.

Background & Qualifications

Certificate in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy 2006 -2007
Diploma (post grad level) in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy 2007 - 2008
PgDip Therapeutic Counselling 2010 - 2011
Advanced Training in Couples Therapy 2012-2013
Diploma In Relationship Therapy with Gender and Sexual Diversities 2015

I attend many CPD (continual professional development) such as IMAGO therapy, counselling survivors of sexual abuse workshops etc.

My Specialisms

GSD Therapy

Are you confused about your sex and gender? Is what is on the outside not the same as how you feel? Are you frightened and confused? Unsure about What to do next, where to turn or how to tell your loved ones how you feel? Do you feel you wont be believed or scorned. Together we can explore your sense of self and how you experience YOUR GENDER offering guidance and support all the way. For those living in the Wirral and Liverpool area There is a possibility of referring to our local Endocrinologist for bridging hormones (depending on assessment) and Speech therapist (Wirral only)

Sexual Diversity
Do you have a kink or fetish? Do you have feelings about wanting to be dominant or submissive. Are you uncomfortable with these feelings or simply wanting to understand them. I can offer you a knowledgeable non pathologizing ear.

Approach to Therapy & How I Work

I work with multi modalities such as humanistic, behavioural, solution focused and Imago. I believe that one type of therapy cannot fit all and therefore use my knowledge of others to tailor therapy and counselling to fit the needs of the individual or couple.
I know for some it can be hard to talk. Therefore i use whatever you are comfortable in using to be able to tell your story and use a language and understanding that you are familiar with. This could be art, sculpture, songs. literate or prose to name but a few.

I am more than happy to work online using various methods such as Google Duo, Whatsapp, Zoom etc. Enabling me to work with clients all over the world

Therapies & Rates

Please note the rates detailed below are there to give you an idea of the therapists standard rates, we strongly advise you contact the therapist for more detailed rates and any offers they may have.

Therapy Appointment Type Rate
Psychotherapy In Person Please Call
Counselling In Person Please Call
Sex Therapy In Person Please Call
Relationship Therapy In Person Please Call