Lena Fenton

Are you struggling with intimacy, desire, trust, or communication? Perhaps you're dealing with low libido, sexual difficulties, the aftermath of abuse, or feeling disconnected from your partner. These are deeply personal issues, and you don't have to face them alone.

I'm a specialist psychosexual and sex therapist with over 30 years' experience, trained at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships. I'm a registered member of the BACP, COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists), and the EMDR Association of the UK and Ireland. I work online with individuals and couples, helping you navigate some of the most personal and sensitive challenges in life.

I offer psychosexual therapy and sex therapy for desire differences, low libido, intimacy difficulties, sexual dysfunction, sexless marriage, and performance anxiety. I also provide couples counselling, relationship therapy, and support for communication breakdown, infidelity, and emotional disconnection.

I offer expert support for those affected by childhood abuse, domestic abuse, sexual violence, and trauma. I have specialist experience with neurodivergence, including Autism and ADHD, and how these affect relationships, intimacy, and emotional wellbeing.

I work with all kinds of relationship configurations, whether it's traditional monogamy, polyamory, or open partnerships. I'm equally experienced working with individuals exploring personal patterns on their own.

I know reaching out takes courage, especially when the issues feel deeply personal. I create a space where you can be completely honest about your relationship, your desires, your fears, without judgement. Just come as you are, and we'll work it out together.

All sessions are online via Zoom, Google Meet, WhatsApp, FaceTime, or phone, flexible therapy that fits around your life, wherever you are in the UK or worldwide.

Individual and couples sessions are £150 (50 minutes). I offer a £12 introductory session (15 minutes), credited toward your first full session, so we can both check the fit before committing. Reduced fees are available, just ask.

MSc in Psychosexual Psychotherapy from the Tavistock Relationships

P.G. Dip in Couples and Individual Counselling & Psychotherapy

H.E. Dip in Psychology

Diploma in Clinical and Pastoral Counselling

Diploma in Life Coaching

Master Practitioner of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming)

PG Cert. in Autism

Registered member of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy)

Registered member of COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists)

Member of the EMDR Association of the UK and Ireland

I specialise in psychosexual therapy and sex therapy for individuals and couples, including low libido, desire differences, sexual dysfunction, sexless marriage, performance anxiety, and intimacy difficulties. I also provide couples counselling, relationship therapy, and marriage counselling for communication breakdown, infidelity, trust issues, and emotional disconnection.

I offer expert support for those affected by childhood abuse, domestic abuse, sexual violence, and trauma. I have specialist experience with neurodivergence, including Autism and ADHD, and how these affect relationships, intimacy, and emotional wellbeing.

I tailor my approach to you, there's no one-size-fits-all in therapy. I draw on psychodynamic, attachment-based, and trauma-focused methods, alongside EMDR and NLP, depending on what you need. Whether we're exploring long-standing relationship patterns or working through a specific crisis, I adapt as we go. Sessions are warm, honest, and practical, you'll leave with real understanding, not just theory.

Sessions typically range from 6 to 20 depending on the complexity of the issues, though some clients find benefit in just a few sessions while others prefer longer-term support. There is no fixed commitment, we work at your pace.