Family Constellation Therapist
“Feeling out of kilter can be frightening, especially when your physical, mental or spiritual wellbeing starts to shape how you move through the world. When your body aches, when your thoughts feel hea…”
This page shows Lucy Ascham’s Family Constellation Therapist availability, pricing and how to get in touch.
Session types
online sessions
Typical rate
From £80 / 50 mins
Based near
Sheffeld (S321DP)
Feeling out of kilter can be frightening, especially when your physical, mental or spiritual wellbeing starts to shape how you move through the world. When your body aches, when your thoughts feel heavy, or when your energy is low, it can touch every part of your life - your mood, your reactions, your sense of possibility, even the way you relate to the people you love.
If you recognise yourself in this, you’re not alone. Your body may be carrying stresses, experiences or worries that have built up over time, and it makes perfect sense that you’re feeling the impact. Some of the things which impact you may well be inherited from family patterns and unprocessed traumas and the survival strategies your parents, caregivers or yourself - ancestral trauma.
The good news is that change is possible. I’ve supported hundreds of people to gently unwind pain, tension and overwhelm using a unique blend of approaches that honour both the body, our relational brain and our nervous system.
If you feel a spark of curiosity or hope, you’re warmly invited to read on - or book a free 15-minute consultation to see whether this work feels right for you.
Alexander Technique - for when your body longs for ease
Do you feel tense, tight or stuck in habits that leave you exhausted or in pain? Do you long to move through your day with more freedom, confidence and calm?
The Alexander Technique offers a unique gentle, practical way to release long-held tension and rediscover ease in your body. I first found this work as a young music student overwhelmed by fear, stress and stage fright, and it changed everything - helping me soften old patterns and feel stronger, steadier and more at home in myself.
If you’re ready to breathe more fully, move with less strain and reconnect with your natural vitality - without efforting, this approach can support you. In-person sessions available in Sheffield and Hathersage UK
Family & Systemic Constellations
Family and Systemic Constellations offer a powerful way to understand the hidden dynamics that shape your health, career, relationships and money. Looking at your life history with a systemic lens brings new perspectives to old issues. We use our body sensations to gather new truths and information, looking at our place, balance and sense of belonging. When Lucy first experienced this work in 2002, it opened up profound insights and shifted her perspective in ways that supported deep personal healing. Constellations can reveal what sits beneath repeating patterns, inherited burdens or stuck places, allowing you to move forward with more clarity, compassion and strength.
Resonant Healing Language Practitioner
- for when your inner world needs warmth and understanding
Do you wish your inner critical voice were kinder? Are you carrying overwhelm, stress or old emotional habits that feel hard to shift on your own?
Resonant Language is a neuroscience-informed approach that uses warm, attuned, precise language to support healing from both recent and long-ago experiences. When someone listens to you with deep resonance, curiosity and warmth our brain can soften its protective patterns and begin creating new neuronal pathways of safety and self-kindness.
After 17 years of learning with my mentor and developer of this new modality Sarah Peyton, I work as one of her assistants and offer ongoing 1:1 emotional healing support. Each session, each conversation becomes a kind of “neuronal gardening,” helping your brain become a gentler, more peaceful place to live.
If any or all of these resonate in your body and being, you don't need to choose or know which one, that is my job - if you'd like some support and these tools intrigue you, let me know and bring your whole self, and I'll support you as you are, and guide you towards a more peaceful body.
If you’re longing to feel more at ease in your body, more grounded in yourself, or more free from the patterns that keep you stuck, I’d love to support you. My work is rooted in movement, embodiment and presence - the places where real change becomes possible. Before becoming a full-time practitioner, I trained as a musician and spent a decade in orchestral management, all while teaching the Alexander Technique to musicians, meditators and people navigating the strain of everyday working life.
Over the years, I’ve helped clients resolve breathing patterns that were threatening their careers, supported people to avoid unnecessary surgery, and guided many others toward tools that keep them out of pain and in their power.
I offer sessions online and in person in Sheffield, as well as experiential group workshops in both the Alexander Technique and Family & Systemic Constellations. These practices invite you into your body, your breath and your deeper knowing - places where insight and healing can unfold naturally.
If you’re living with postural pain, the Alexander Technique can help you notice and shift the habits that create tension, so you can move with more ease, confidence and joy. And if you’re exploring the roots of emotional patterns or intergenerational burdens, Family Constellations offers a profound way to see what’s been hidden and restore balance, belonging and harmony in your system.
If something in you is saying yes, even quietly, I warmly invite you to take the next step. I’d be honoured to walk alongside you as you reconnect with your body, your clarity and your capacity for change.
I meet each person with resonance - really checking in with you, staying attuned to what you’re saying, feeling and experiencing in your body. I offer guided sessions both online and in person.
I especially love working hands-on with the Alexander Technique, sharing the same physical space and presence with you here in Sheffield and Hathersage.
Even before lockdown I was already working online, and over the past few years I’ve honed those skills. I now also love supporting a growing international community of clients from all over the world.
I’m always delighted to be invited to offer talks, workshops or retreats for your workplace, study group or community.
I look forward to talking with you
Please note the rates below are indicative. We recommend contacting the therapist directly for confirmed pricing.
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| Therapy | Appointment type | Rate |
|---|---|---|
| Family Constellation Therapist Currently viewing | Online/Telephone | £80 per 50 minutes |
| Family Constellation Therapist Currently viewing | Online/Telephone | £150 per 120 minutes |
| Alexander Technique Practitioner | In person | £80 per 50 minutes |