Leah Spasova
Sex Therapist in Oxford

As a Psychologist specialising in Sex(uality) & Relationships, I help individuals and couples build the happy and fulfilling relationships and intimate lives they desire.

Tired of feeling frustrated, lonely, unfulfilled — or like you're repeating the same relationship patterns no matter how much you try to break them?

I get it - it can feel like you're trying to find your way through thick fog and keep ending up lost or in the same place - it's exhausting and disheartening.

I've been talking, teaching and helping people with their relationships and sexuality since 2007, and no story can faze me. You can feel safe - I'll get you. I will understand and not judge one bit.

This is your journey.

Are you struggling with intimacy and sexuality?
Are you curious about kinky sex or swinging?
Or maybe you want to open your relationship?
Or to begin with - actually find a partner?

I am here to help, but first, let's s start with a FREE 30-minute Discovery Call.

We'll explore what you need and whether I'm the right professional for you. And if not, I'll happily assist you in finding a better match or service for your needs.

You can schedule here:
https://www.lifesexperts.com/book-free-discovery-call

Background & Sex Therapy Qualifications

My background is in mental health. I have a degree in Psychology and Counselling and the focus of my education and training is particularly in social psychology, cognitive-behavioral therapy, psychology of sexuality and cultural diversity.

I take from various modalities - from somatic healing, through Parts Work aka IFS to Transactional Analysis and more.

My greatest passion and work is in helping people build fulfilling intimate lives and happy relationships. My research interests and passion are in social psychology & sex(uality).

My Specialisms

*** Specialties ***

Relationship Issues
Sex(uality) and sexual difficulties and challenges
Alternative models of relationships - such as open relationships, polyamory
Alternative sexual experiences and practices - such as BDSM and Kink

Whatever sits closest to your heart, we can work with.

I help my clients to build their skills set, understanding of themselves and their partners, expand on their sexuality and expression, get out of unhealthy patterns in relationships and build a life full of passion, pleasure, excitement, love, peace and confidence.

Curious?

I invite you to learn more about my work by visiting my website. And if you're interested, simply reach out and we will schedule a 30min FREE Discovery Call, so you can make an informed decision about working together.

Visit my website: https://www.lifesexperts.com/individuals

Approach to Sex Therapy & How I Work

If you've been "doing the work" — reading the books, reflecting, trying to communicate better, even doing therapy before — and you're still stuck, and you're still stuck, it means you never got the complete roadmap for the life-changes you dream of. Many people leave therapy with some insights, but without the tailored psycho-social and sexual education, practical skills, and emotional safety needed to live differently.

Hence, my work integrates all three:

1) Education (Know Better): you can't do better if you don't know better. In session, we build the language and frameworks for healthy intimacy and relating— understanding your needs, boundaries, relationship dynamics, intimacy and desire — so your patterns finally make sense.

2) Skills + practice (Do Better): but just because you know better, doesn't mean you can do better. That's why together, we elevate learning into real-life tools — communication skills, boundary-setting, emotional regulation, and relational strategies you can actually use day to day.

3) Deep Emotional Healing (Feel Safe Enough): even when you know what to do and how, old wounds and scared and traumatised parts of you can freeze you or push you to withdraw or run. We work with what sits underneath — fear, shame, grief, anger, betrayal, resentment — so you're not fighting yourself every time you try to grow.


To schedule a FREE 30min Discovery Call visit:
https://www.lifesexperts.com/book-free-discovery-call

To get my free eBook: ''The Big 3 Secrets to a Pleasure Filled Life'' here: https://www.lifesexperts.com/knowledge-hub

Therapies & Rates

Please note the rates detailed below are there to give you an idea of the therapists standard rates, we strongly advise you contact the therapist for more detailed rates and any offers they may have.

Therapy	Appointment Type	Rate
Life Coaching	Online/Telephone	£115 per 60 minutes
Relationship Therapy	Online/Telephone	£115 per 60 minutes
Sex Therapy	Online/Telephone	£115 per 60 minutes

Additional Rate Information

Price per session on a pay-as-you-go payment plan £140; Save when you get a Package. Packages of 7, 15 and 20 sessions are available. Price per session varies on packages of sessions between £115-140 Payment in Installments is available for all Packages. Visit my website to browse the packages: https://www.lifesexperts.com/packages-and-payment Visit my website to browse the Payment in Instalments option: https://www.lifesexperts.com/payment-in-instalments